Veteran Nollywood actress Bukky Wright has urged women not to settle for less in relationships, insisting that they should never feel guilty for expecting financial stability and proper care from their partners.
Speaking during a recent interview on relationships, finances, and the responsibilities of men, the actress challenged the growing narrative that labels women as “gold diggers,” arguing that men have a duty to adequately provide for the women they choose to date.
Wright maintained that a woman should be a source of pride to the man she is with and deserved to be treated with dignity and respect.
According to her, a man who is unable to meet the financial demands of a relationship should either pursue someone whose lifestyle matches his means or refrain from entering a relationship until he is financially capable.
The actress made it clear that she does not agree with the common criticism directed at women who expect financial support from their partners. She argued that such expectations should not automatically attract the label of being materialistic, stressing that every relationship comes with responsibilities that both parties must understand before making a commitment.
“I hate it when I hear men call women gold diggers. What do you expect her to dig? I won’t advise any woman to dig anything less than gold. If you cannot afford a woman, don’t go for it; go for the one you can afford,” she said.
Rather than blaming women for having expectations, Wright said men should honestly assess their financial capacity and make relationship choices that reflect what they can comfortably sustain.
The actress also emphasised that women should not lower their standards or accept situations that leave them undervalued. In her view, relationships thrive when both partners understand their respective responsibilities and are prepared to fulfil them without resentment or unrealistic expectations.
The veteran actress, who has enjoyed a successful career in Nollywood spanning several decades, is no stranger to speaking openly about social issues.
