Nollywood actor Uzor Arukwe has once again stirred conversations on social media after sharing a message encouraging single women to prioritise personal and financial independence before seeking a wealthy or supportive partner.
The actor, who has become one of the industry’s most thoughtful voices, made the remark while responding to the online buzz surrounding his latest movie role as Odogwu, a character celebrated by fans for his loyalty, composure, and generosity towards his love interest, Chioma.
According to Arukwe, what many viewers overlook in their admiration for Odogwu’s character is that Chioma was already a hardworking, value-driven woman before she found love. He explained that strong men are naturally drawn to women who have already discovered their worth, rather than those waiting to be “rescued” by wealth or affection.
The actor, known for his reflective approach to storytelling, has long used his public platform to highlight discipline, ambition, and personal development as values that are central to success in love and career.
That same sense of responsibility appears to echo in his latest viral post, which many fans have interpreted as a gentle reality check for women who idealise material success over personal development.
The online post read in part: “While we are basking in our delulu, let’s remember that Odogwu saw Chioma as a valuable woman before throwing his full weight behind her. He didn’t need to ask what she brings to the table. It was clear she was industrious. So as a woman, build value for yourself first, and your Odogwu will locate you to become your helpmate.”
This is not the first time Arukwe has used his influence to promote self-awareness and empowerment.
Earlier this year, during a session at the Broadway Movie Academy, where he shared a platform with Bimbo Akintola, Yvonne Jegede, and Samuel Olatunji, the actor told young creatives that personal growth is non-negotiable in every aspect of life.
He noted that “discipline and self-improvement are the real currency of success,” regardless of gender or background.
For Arukwe, a woman who understands her worth will not need to chase validation, and a man who values himself will naturally recognise a kindred spirit.
