Former Big Brother Naija (BBNaija) housemate Tochi has urged married men to remain faithful to their wives, stressing that marriage should come with a commitment to leave other women alone.
The reality TV star shared the message on his Instagram page, where he rephrased the popular biblical verse about finding a wife, encouraging men who are married to uphold fidelity and protect their unions.
According to Tochi, a man who has found a wife has already found something valuable and should not seek relationships outside his marriage.
“He that finds a wife, finds a good thing and should leave other women alone,” he wrote.
In a separate Instagram post, Tochi also encouraged men to build healthy, non-sexual friendships with women. He argued that such relationships can provide meaningful support and value beyond romance, adding that intimacy often destroys friendships that could otherwise remain beneficial.
“As a man, learn to have non-sexual friendships with women. You’ll be surprised how much value and support they add to your life. Most times, sex spoils good friendships,” he added.
The latest remarks are consistent with Tochi’s recent public comments on relationships and marriage.
While reacting to media personality Frank Edoho’s marital situation in an earlier post, the former BBNaija season five housemate argued that modern relationships face greater challenges because many people no longer possess the same level of patience, tolerance and endurance that previous generations displayed.
He maintained that society has become “too woke,” making it easier for couples to abandon their marriages instead of working through difficult moments.
He also criticised women who expect wealthy partners while, in his view, overlooking the lack of ambition among some members of their own families.
He questioned why some women demand luxury and financial comfort from their boyfriends when their brothers remain unemployed or dependent on others for support.
Beyond issues of money and relationships, Tochi has consistently linked the growing number of failed marriages to changing social values. He previously argued that many couples now place greater emphasis on appearances than on character and behaviour within their relationships, suggesting that this imbalance contributes to the increasing rate of marital breakdowns.
